I was comparing it to an ill fitting bra or shoes that are too small and struggled to comprehend why he’d want this. It was almost like I wanted sexual satisfaction but somehow it was now removed from me a little, by my own doing. The right size is the one that will actually enforce zero erection and maintain a completely flaccid penis.

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If hubby/boyfriend loves licking you and you allow that a couple times a week, take it away for a while. I’d suggest that you do not make a big deal of it when you decide that “this is it”, don’t say anything. The time that you share together as a couple is extremely limited and he wants to spend it locking his wiener up in some sort of cage?As the male comes to realize the true effectiveness of the protocol at revealing his ejaculatory behavior, his compliance with the rules against unauthorized ejaculations will certainly improve. Of course, it is absolutely vital in this type of arrangement that your man knows that serious infractions or behavior that greatly displeases you will get that date pushed back. These systems allow you to focus your specific goals for your man, such as housework, attentiveness, concern for your happiness, and general obedience.

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It takes at least that long for the anesthetic to take full effect Also, put a condom on him or the cream left on his penis will put your vagina to sleep. When Mrs, Lion and I started our enforced male chastity adventure, I laid out the ground rules as I understood them: I was to wear a locking chastity device over my penis that would prevent me from stimulating myself. It is true that keeping the hope of orgasms around is a powerful motivating tool, so many who choose this strategy keep releases on an arbitrary basis officially, and simply phase his releases out naturally. It became quite pedestrian in pursuit of a goal — to get this done and over, maybe even to teach hubby a lesson.While the results do vary from male to male, each male’s specific performance, once established, will be very consistent and repeatable indeed – and hence very reliable for that male. The semen dripping out is caused by the fact that ejaculation was signaled, but you stopped before the stimulation needed to get his PC muscle to squirt it out was triggered. Eventually, you can put an end to his releases and orgasms entirely, and enjoy a long, happy, healthy, and extremely sexually active relationship. A hard dose of even more chastity is the least you can do to start curing this unhealthy impulse and his insubordinate behavior. Clearly this hasn’t happened, and after quite some time (seven or eight years, now), it’s now just another comfortable part of “us”.