Yes, Mistress” I reply, stand up and curtsey. I obey You, and go to fetch them. “Which paddle Mistress? The bigger heavier one or the lighter more flexible one?” Just wanted to say Thank You for all the Wonderful insights you provide in Female Empowerment and male Feminization!!

I love this new direction you’re taking. Thank you for the updates, they are very much appreciated! Honestly I feeling really torn, I enjoy a certain level of humiliation, I enjoy my wife getting off on it more than me. This is more than I was expecting. Next, you will have to obtain a larger paddle for more serious punishment, or as I call them, “stand-up sessions.” You can make your own, or if that isn’t feasible, can find a suitable alternative at any sporting goods store. Look for one that is shaped like a large ping-pony paddle and is used for a form of racquetball. Some even have holes drilled in them. The theory behind this is that the holes allow the air to rush through, therefore giving the paddle stroke more velocity. A handy substitute is a 24-inch wood ruler. Before using it, wrap about five inches of one end with a good non-slip tape to form a handle. I’d love to hear your own ideas for humiliating my husband. Anything goes, the naughtier and ruder, the better.

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The idea of being a fulltime housewife is heaven to me. The only thing I would have to worry about would be keeping the house run well and my partner happy. Blow Job competition. Each sissy is instructed to give their best BJ to either a dildo or cucumber (or whatever you think best). You can then award points for the best. These experiences will enhance their feminine responses when engaged in sexual or emotional activities with other sissies

Choose 1 blanket, 1 pillow and 1 slave rug. You are allowed these items to sleep if you have displayed good behavior, otherwise you sleep on the floor. The things that make us squirm in humiliation…that public type of humiliation or even the 1-to-1 type, is when we have to say the words that broadcast how submissive we are…. to have to broadcast that out loud…or in writing… to others about what sissies we are… how pathetic we can be without our Goddesses…and how we worship our Mistresses… or to admit we love wearing feminine clothes…overtly…or under our business clothes…with that fear of being detected.It seems like you are generally ramping up the requirements on Alice – p perhaps moving into a new era of firmer Female Domination? He can relax, knowing that she is in charge and she will take care of the important decision making. Of course, if permitted he can add his well-considered and polite input, but ultimately, he can relax knowing, as the leader, she will make the best decisions for both of them. By letting go of major decision making and focussing on service, a submissive man can attain an enormous sense of calm and contentedness in his life. I know you are finished with Alice’s orgasms but I just thought I’d add a note about another method used by at least some dominant women. When they are in the mood they get the sissy to ejaculate as fast and as perfuntorily as possible – then they give them viagra.

Today, take 15 minutes to sit down and compose a list of things you would want out of an FLR relationship. You’ll end up with 2 lists: what you want and what your husband wants.I have made Todd strip bare naked in front of my gal pals, and twice I’ve paddled him to tears with my sister watching. Shave off all body hair and make your body soft and smooth to remind yourself you are a docile male. My submission has recently taken a new road, but that’s a whole other post, and for now, let’s stay at the ‘how to begin’. You may want to keep your whole D/s-M, not just your submission, in the bedroom to begin with and let it flow out as you feel it cum naturally. If you brought the idea of this dynamic to your husband, a big part of your role is being a “tour guide” for him into D/s-M, submission, and even his Domination. This is why it’s important for you to start here at the VERY beginning understanding all the basics so you can pass them on with confidence to him. What’s Your Dominant’s Role? Buy a collar and leash. This will be a slave collar to wear at all times when naked. Make sure a leash can be attached to it for your Mistress to train you. Mrs Edge says that it’s easy to remember, doesn’t sound silly, and safe enough for vanilla women like her to use.

Structure your lists into 2 subjects: things you really want to have control over and things that would be nice to have. The truth is I’ve always been very dominant. It’s incredibly exciting to have a steady, stable and loving relationship with someone I can do whatever I want with, whenever I feel like it. Purely for my personal entertainment. Alice seems to be totally bonded to You. So it’s a question of what do You want to happen. Whatever it is, You can make it happen because of that bond and because of that bond you will make sure that You will move things in a way that Alice feels secure in Your love. She has also had me on the beach in diapers with plastic protective panties and also Woman’s incontinent briefs and panties. A lot of what you said in this thread really resonated with me. To start with I had a Domme that was helping me find my femme side when I 1st discovered this facet of myself. I initially talked to her about sissies and she got very upset. Pretty much for what you mentioned about sissies being less of a man by being more of a woman. I asked her to give me some time to respond to what she said. A couple of weeks later I invited her over and showed her some Japanese anime about “Magical Girls” Sailor Moon or Pretty Sami are good examples. I talked to her about these series and how the main characters went through a magical transformation to become a hyper feminine superherion. Instead of viewing feminization as a something derogatory I wanted to embrace it as something empowering. I will never be a genetic female but I embrace my femininity and pursue it with a Gothic Lolita fashion style. ( No relation to Nabokov). I love my ruffles and take pride in the outfits I wear out in public. Just thought I’d share this with you.

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I expect her clitty erect when it is exposed as I believe this is a display of respect and a sign of her love and affection for me. (No cumming allowed of course). It’s been a good discipline for her to learn to maintain an erection for long periods without release. Sometimes, I have to tell her to rub herself to maintain her respectful erection. I control her releases, naturally, and without the need for a cage. That’s real power. I therefore want my husband in the shortest, most girly pink skirts possible or the sexiest feminine revealing lingerie or naked for me to play about with. I adore doing humiliating sexual acts on her. I have access to anything. Anything I can think of that gives me pleasure is in scope. Piercings can be great idea. The belly button is a “no excuse” piercing since it’s not seen. I’ve read Alice’s objections to ear piercing which I believe essential to feminization. I assume you do not have a metal chastity cage yet, because then you would know the power it gives you and the submissiveness it forces Alice into. I would bet that if you teased her, put a bag of frozen corn or peas on her little clitty (to shrink it) and installed the cage with the promise that it would be removed and she could have an orgasm only after she makes an appointment and follows through with getting her ears pierced, it would assure that the job would get done within a couple weeks.