Training Her Husband: Femdom Rules

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Dom sex often involves more extreme and rough sexual acts than vanilla sex, but just how far you’re willing to take things will differ from person to person. We call the boundaries we’re not willing to cross ‘ hard limits,’ and different Doms have different hard limits. Dropping to all fours and gripping the paddle in his teeth, William crawled out to his waiting, loving wife -- anxious to learn what additional indignities he would be required to endure before reaching the happy ending he so desperately craved. Terminology is a big deal. Names and titles evoke power, so it’s important you think carefully about yours. The name you insist that your sub refers to you as will set expectations for the whole scene.

The main thing that all Doms have in common is that they’re trying to evoke a sense of power and authority over their sub. That’s the basic idea, and that can be achieved through a whole lot of different elements. As soon as he returned, Jessica instructed him to meet her in the office. "Oh, and bring that ball-stretcher thing you mailed away for. You know when you ware that you can maintain an erection almost forever." I like to give my sub rules which make my life better, her life better, our sex life better, and work towards building something we both love doing.

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Prepare yourself. Be refreshed and ready to serve her when she gets home. If you are a sissy husband, touch up your makeup and put a pink ribbon in your hair. If you are not a sissy, be on your knees to greet her at the door. Take her coat, bag, and anything else she is carrying. All very good information, but what about her bad habits? She’s human and she’ll have them too. Will she be able to “man up” and honestly say she may not be the best at handling money for example? Or will she just not say anything and head to the casino for a gambling spree? The latter is more likely – and on that one point the whole FLR plan falls apart. Partners need to be well aware of each other’s capabilities and the best person for handling each task. It still may end up with him doing household chores, but at least he is an equal partner instead of a slave. He doesn’t have to lose his self respect. Rules for kink events. Merge public and sexual rules to create kinky rules you can give your sub whilst attending play parties or social events with open minded folks.

There is also a school of thought that punishments should not be used in online relationships at all. Power and self-confidence and closely linked together. If you’re not confident, it’ll be much harder for you to give off that aura of strength, power, and control that’s central to the experience. One of the biggest parts of the appeal of D/s sex to subs is how it makes them feel desired. A lot of women fantasize about being utterly desirable to their partners. Coaches demonstrate the task or have it demonstrated then guide from the sidelines watching the learner and continuing to participate in their learning. Coaching as a style should be authoritative. The reward is getting the coaching and getting to participate. Training your man with the dominant teacher approach might seem impossible and downright scary as a rule for a beginner sub. But for a more experience sub, she may look at that and say ‘Only an hour?’ ?Now if you’re wondering, no, these aren’t ALL rules that I give my sub. Some of them contradict each other, and there are far too many. After a few weeks of dating my sub, and after I’d got to know her preferences, both in sexually and generally what type of submissive she way (Try my What Sub Personality Are You? quiz as well as my What is a sub? And what types of sub exist? article for more information) I began to start formulating the types of rules I wanted her to follow.